Part II: The Day Before the Hockey Game

11/05/09
10:56pm Ann i will be coming to michigan two times in the next month. i won't be able to make it to midland over thanksgiving, but i may the following weekend.
10:56pmHeather sweet! i miss u bunches
10:57pmAnn my family christmas is dec 5th, and provided it ends early enough, i can come crash at your place, and hang out that Sunday. we could have a party! in celebration of meeeeeeeeeee
10:57pmHeather that'd be sweet
10:57pmAnn lol
10:57pmHeather yay! i love celebrating ann. no captain for me tho i got wild last night
10:58pmAnn so lets plan on sat night party on dec 5th. i will be there, and invite your crew and the old crew.
probably want to take the following day off from work to recover
10:59pmHeather sweeet
10:59pmAnn like how i'm taking over your house?
11:01pmHeather i love it. someone has to be in control cuz u know i am crazy
11:01pmAnn pass the word on, and i'll remind you again closer to. i miss your craziness. i'm a little jealous hearing about everything you guys are doing
11:03pmHeather we have been partying it up since arick left his gf lol
11:03pmAnn do you mean partying or "partying"
11:04pmHeather theres a differernct?
11:04pmAnn yes. one means sex. i'm going to create a facebook event for this shin dig and i'll bring the cheesy poofs
11:05pmHeather OH! no i have been amazingly not fucking himits weird
11:05pmAnn well it's not 30 days yet
11:06pmHeather haha exactly! i have alrady broken my record with the last 9 days
11:10pmAnn yay!!
11:11pmHeather i am doing great. we have had some heavy make out sessions and maybe a little oral.... haha... but no SEX.
11:11pmAnn did i tell you I almost got laid this weekend? oral is great! actually, either giving or receiving
11:16pmHeather recieving is better lol
11:16pmAnn yeah, i know, i lied. but i was not grossed out by giving, and i always thought i would be
11:16pmHeather REALLY?????????almost lost the vcard?
11:17pmAnn nah. i'm a big pussy. i got drunk on saturday and drove home from an event, and then called j to apologize for yelling at him for driving drunk since that would make me a hypocrite. he took it as a booty call and told me to come over right away and bring condoms. some other drama went down bet. him and me and d, and by this point i was sobering up. i told him that as much as we both wanted to, he knew that i wanted more out of the relationship, so i couldn't come over
11:20pmAnn he really likes me too, and has said so, but feels like he needs to play the field some more
11:22pmHeather its a guy thing. they're stupid and don't see a good thing when it is right in front of them
11:23pmAnn so basically, everyone around us knows that we like each other now. d teases me about it mercilessly. i didn't speak to him for two days until he apologized after saturday because he told j a bunch of things i had told him in confidence. he said i never clarified it was off the record, and he couldn't understand why i was mad when it was all stuff j already knew. the point was that he betrayed me, and j didn't need to be reminded when we're working on being friends
11:25pmHeather wow. u do have drama. i thought i was the only one
11:25pmAnn i know, i'm sorry i'm venting, but it's not done
11:26pmAnn he actually must have said something right because j has been talking to me even more at work, and today was especially honest and a good conversation. i was in the middle of negotiations yesterday and put up my do not disturb signal on my IM, and he sent me a special message: "does the dnd mean me too :( "
11:28pmHeather well thats good
11:28pmAnn my friend misty is convinced that d is using deliberate sabotage on us because he likes me too. sooooooooooooooo
11:28pmHeather cuz u sexy lol
11:29pmAnn tomorrow's hockey game, we're all going together and those two are getting wasted
11:30pmAnn apparently, taking them both to keeneland started a huge bromance and d is crashing on j's couch after the game and they're hanging out all weekend
11:30pmHeather wow lol
11:30pmAnn i've also heard from both of them separately that they text each other about me, so i can only imagine what's been said. probably that i'm a tease, or something. so, i think that's it, for now.
11:32pmHeather thats never good news
11:32pmAnn oh, i almost forgot, jared bought me pizza and a drink on saturday at the event. he may just have been being nice. i really wish i could read him better. j said the sex was an open invitation though, but he wants to do the friends with benefits thing, and i want a relationship.
11:33pmHeather cuz thats the right thing to do
11:34pmAnn i know. why am i still hung up on this dumbass after two months?
11:34pmHeather cuz we feel deeply. me and u are alike in that way
11:36pmAnn i refuse to put any label stronger than "like" on this
11:36pmHeather fo sho.
11:36pmAnn cause i know he could break my heart
11:38pmHeather yup. i was telling arick that last night. that i am so into him and i am scared he might move on without me
11:39pmAnn and guys say we're not honest

Part III: Hockey Game to follow