Did we break up?

It has now been officially 9 days since I last heard from Dan, and I am not counting the voicemail he left me at 1am on Friday night, knowing full well I would be sleeping. I'm not sure what this means for our relationship, but every other guy I've dated has ended things the same way, by never calling me again. I'm afraid the same thing has happened here. We had wonderful plans for this weekend and next, and now, with no communication, everything's up in the air. I don't want to be broken up, but it seems once again, I am not given the choice. Fuck him.